Monday, July 7, 2008

So date yourself. Fall in love with yourself.

Here's an article in yahoo personals that I've read and want to share with you. Out of 5, I got 3 1/2 signs of personal completion. Igo ko sa #2 and guilty sa #5 usahay.

Also found these quotes from the article and they are very true.

" A healthy relationship is defined by two independent people who share a love for each other but are not dependent on each other."

"The best relationship is when two people that complete themselves come together to enjoy each other. Look for your "soul-match," not a fantasy "soulmate" who will complete you in some way -- that's your job!"

"Remember, we attract a reflection of ourselves, so consider working on completing yourself as an investment into upping the quality of your lifetime companion."

Here are five signs of personal completion:

1. Whether you are single or in a relationship, you cherish your alone time. You don't feel lonely. You actually enjoy doing things on your own. A movie or dinner alone does not scare you.

You can be around other couples by yourself without feeling jealous or sad about not having a significant other (or not having your significant other with you).

The idea of being in a relationship sounds wonderful, but it is not something you obsess about everyday. If you are in a relationship, it does not consume your daily thoughts or activities.

You have a clear sense of who you are and what your values are -- another person would not be able to sway you to sacrifice or change the things that matter to you the most.

You realize you are responsible for your own happiness and do not look to anyone else to make you feel a certain way. You have no expectations of what a relationship is supposed to do for you.

Click here read the whole article.

1 comment:

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